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Learn What Women Secretly Say Behind Their Husbands' Backs About
What They Want and Need,
What Turns Them On and Off,
and How to
Make Her Feel Like You Can Read Her Mind!
...unless, of course you’re ready to go back to getting flamed over a
lame pickup line in a bar or sitting at home reading the dating
personals. Or maybe just living with a cheating wife or girlfriend is
more your style. No?
Whether you’re having trouble in
your marriage or relationship now or wanting to stop it before it starts
(and it can start with one wrong look or word!), you’d better read
Frustrated, Confused, Or Celibate Friend,
Relationships, whether you’re married or not, go
stale – the excitement fades, the sex slows down and nearly stops,
schedules get filled with jobs, kids, hobbies, and chores, and before
you know it, you’re both crawling in the bed at night and falling
asleep, whether that’s why you went to bed or not. It may feel like the
end of your life and damage your self-image, but at worst, it’s just the
end of the honeymoon, and you’ve got yourself a lonely housewife or
girlfriend who just might already be listed in the online personals or
some lonely wife club.
What’s a Guy to
Do? What Have You Tried?
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Solid relationship advice that
you can immediately put to work for you is hard to find. Some go out to
the library, bookstore or search engines looking for everything they can
find on “marriage help” or “marriage advice,” “seduce my wife,” “love
advice,” “relationship help,” or "relationship advice," or my favorite,
“what women want,” and get a very vague and inaccurate picture from
people who’d be better suited to writing psychology textbooks or
Others go to the other extreme, flooding Google and other search engines
with queries for sources on extra-marital affairs or dating sites, such
as “speed dating,” “dating advice,” “how to get a girlfriend,” “one
night stand,” and even “macking” (the art of the one night stand), and
don’t accomplish anything except setting themselves up for a divorce or
other bad break up and having it hit the “Girly Grapevine” that they are
a cheating scumbag.
Is this you?
There are a few who realize that creating and maintaining a happy and
fulfilling relationship needs a more direct approach, especially those
into self-help and self-improvement systems, and they go to millions of
sites Google serves up with such search terms as “attract woman,”
“seduction tip” and “sexual attraction,” but these pages and products,
developed by some of the world’s more brilliant minds, like John Alanis
(“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”), David DeAngelo (“Double Your
Dating”), Shelly McMurtry (“First in Her Mind”), Tiffany Taylor (“Guy
Gets Girl”), and Mari-Jo Tyler (“Laugh Into Love,” a relationship
expert, sex therapist, and comedienne!), and which get huge results for
people trying to become successful in the dating world, are developed
mainly for someone IN the dating world.
Going back into the dating world and meeting strangers is what
you’re trying to avoid, isn't it?! Trying to employ such attraction
tactics, such as being unpredictable, which is irresistible to a woman
you’ve just met, to a mature relationship will scare the living hell out
of a woman with whom you are sharing a mortgage and a few kids, married
She wants predictability, but is attracted to unpredictability.
There are a great many “toy boys” around who can give her that little
thrill while you continue to provide stability, so the whole issue is a
double-edged sword and a huge trap for both of you, as are many other
things that trip a woman’s attraction triggers.
How do you sort it out?
What do women want, especially in a long-term relationship? What
feelings can you enjoy giving her that she will enjoy?
To make matters worse, you may have already been doing some research,
and come across some of the dating gurus mentioned above. The advice
they give is rock solid for the dating world -- it just doesn't get any
better -- but they repeatedly say to their readers, "Once attraction is
lost, forget it and move on, because it's gone, it's near impossible, if
not entirely impossible, to bring it back."
Maybe for their readers, but take a closer look...
In the short window you have
to create attraction in a new person and try to make it bloom into a
lasting relationship, this is true. But, the rules and timeframes are
different for committed relationships. Have you already given up? You
shouldn't, because the fact that you're in a committed relationship
works in your favor, and can actually motivate your bored girlfriend or
wife to help you set things right under the right conditions.
Hi! I’m David
Cunningham, a semi-retired and measurably successful
international management consultant and troubleshooter,
and one of those people that everybody calls no matter
what their problem is, because if I don’t have an
answer, I find one for them that works.
At the request of
people in trouble, I’ve become an expert in most areas
of business, alternative healthcare and health
maintenance, gourmet dieting and cooking, just
to name a few things. It’s been going on so long that
many of the people who know me call me “Doc,” in spite
of the fact that I’m neither a physician nor holder of a
doctorate degree, because I can usually find "a cure for
whatever ails them."
This problem of
a “stale” relationship, one in which both parties, whether
married or not, still love each other and are committed to staying together, or
at least want to be, but their relationship is in a rut – their sex
lives are near non-existent, their lives are routine and boring --
happened over time and has become a “comfortable” habit. Judging by the
results of studies conducted by people qualified and equipped to conduct
them, the average married couple has sex only six times a year, in spite
of studies conducted on these same people indicating that they think
about sex hourly and often every few minutes.
How can this be a recipe
for a happy marriage?
I’m going to make a bet that if you’re still
reading this, either you’re in the same boat, or you’re the proactive
sort that tries to stop problems before they start and don’t want to be
part of that statistic. I’ve been happily married for the last
years at the time of this writing, and I can tell you from experience,
my own and that of hundreds of other couples, that the good news is
that reigniting her attraction for you is all that this situation
requires for short-term success, and keeping that success this time
around is a simple matter of completing two tasks and starting up two
on-going processes, one of which will be on “auto-pilot” and one you
will actively manage:
Task 1: Make sure you are a good match for each other.
Some people just aren't good for each other; indeed,
some couples are downright mutually destructive, and think
they're happy, when they are actually comfortably unhappy. A bad
match-up can’t work well because there’s always the stress of
trying to bend and stretch to meet somebody in the middle, and
it’s such a stretch that neither of you will ever be able to
enjoy the relationship.
Task 2 (and the process on “auto-pilot”): Learning a
bit about how men and women communicate differently and how to
"meet in the middle." You
may have always known that women go about it differently than we
do, and that it makes us nuts, but getting a handle on it is
really not as complicated as a great many of the people with
lots of “alphabet soup” dangling after their names on their
business cards would have you believe. Just being aware of the
basic differences is often enough to start bridging the gap,
because understanding often brings about cooperation and
improvement, which in turn starts a continuous improvement
process that you’ll find that you enjoy so much that
quickly become automatic, because while it’s a little bit of
work, it’s a whole lot of fun!
The actively managed process: Keeping that attraction
alive once reignited, which isn’t at all difficult once
you understand what she responds to, because it’s not
just easy to do, it’s fun for both of you! Especially when you
trip those triggers regularly, because not only will your sex
life return to what you used to call “normal” (and exciting!),
but you’ll once again find each other fun and exciting in more
and more ways. She’ll respond to having her triggers tripped by
automatically tripping your triggers as well, and as your
communications skills improve you’ll discover more ways to trip
each others’ triggers. It’s an upward spiral to long-term
happiness, building fun, excitement, and security, and
self-esteem for both of you.
As simple as that
sounds, that’s really all there is to it, but there are quite a few
toe-stumpers, pitfalls, and outright traps along the way. I’ve
investigated them, and with the help of a significant and still-growing
support staff of women who are in or have been in mature relationships,
have prepared a sizable report on how to make this all work in your
life. This support staff reviews all advice and examples to make sure
that everything is as accurate as possible with regard to how women
react to various thoughts, actions, and conversational elements by
gauging their own responses to the recommendations (and you can bet
their husbands and boyfriends are loving life now!), so what’s included
isn’t just an opinion of what works for one guy with one gal, it’s what
works, period! You’re getting information on what makes women tick that
every woman wishes you knew but few if any women would have ever told you
in a way you could understand if you had just asked.
The first part of the report (it was a
report” just for buying the product, but I’d rather keep it simple so
you can make a single download!) will lead you through a fair and
thorough assessment of yourself, your partner, and your relationship. It
will help you to ask and answer the difficult questions that must be
resolved before you can expect success going forward or find happiness
if this partner isn’t “the one.”
To speed you on your way to a more
intimate (and more fun!) relationship, in the second part of this
report, which was another huge “free report” but is also
integrated for a
more effective product and your convenience, I’ve provided not only a
few technical details, but also great examples of conversations you’ve
probably had, mistakes you probably made in those conversations, and
ways in which you can come out better when you have them again in the
Finally, we dig deep into what attraction really is, how it
works, and how to make it happen! Pay attention here, because
attraction, more than anything else, is what women want, whether they
realize it or not, and you've got to create it for them or someone else
In this robust, 116-page report, you'll learn:
yourself, your significant other, and your
relationship to determine if you should be
there or not.
If it turns out
that you shouldn’t be in the relationship,
there’s solid advice on who to contact
if you need help getting out and which dating
gurus I know you can contact for
effective advice and help in getting
back into the game with a satisfaction guarantee.
The actual secrets
of what women really want and
what they respond to—the answers to
questions that have plagued men for thousands of
years! Specifically, we’ll go through what
attraction is, why it’s so powerful, how to trigger
it in ways that are acceptable in a
mature relationship, and how to kill
it, both slowly and instantly.
The truth about
attraction, what it is, what causes it, and what
kills it, not to mention why it’s so important
throughout the relationship—why the
relationship starts dying the very second the
attraction starts to wane.
Why being a
traditional “nice guy” is the kiss of death to a
and how to do things that she will think are
nice without spoiling the relationship,
including how to determine the kinds of gifts
she’ll flip over every single time!
power tutorial in understanding the
differences in how men and women communicate,
why it is futile to expect each other to do anything
more than try to meet in the middle with
regard to communications style and methods (not
issues!), and why it’s so much easier
and fun when you are trying to meet in the
distinguish between "attraction," “love,” “need,”
(and yes, they are very different and
How and why
most little boys know more about attracting the
opposite sex than most teenage or adult men!
attraction disappears from relationships,
using specific examples, and how to tell if
this is what’s happening
or has happened in your relationship.
Why and how
women test men constantly, no matter how
good things get, and what to do about it.
need drama in their life, the difference
between a normal woman and a “drama queen,” and why
normal woman will be horribly insulted if you call
her a “drama queen.”
don’t want a “metrosexual” for their lover,
but those baggy graphic T-shirts and cargo shorts,
worn out sandals, and grubby baseball caps
won’t cut it either. You’ll discover
the happy medium, and you’ll be thrilled to
know that it doesn’t have to cost you an arm
and a leg.
Ways in which men
and women are overwhelmingly similar in their
needs and desires – this section will shock
most if not all readers!
A specific list of
things that trigger instant attraction in
virtually all women, which ones work best
between members of a mature relationship and which
work better in a new relationship, as well as the
ones that can be counter-productive in a
mature relationship if handled wrong and how
to handle them
(unpredictability is not the only one!).
attraction is triggered, to make sure you not only
don’t kill it with a bad sexual performance,
give her what she really wants and will fight to
keep, every time!
Why should you
bother to read this report? Well for starters, it works! Just the
awareness gained by the support staff in focusing on the material and
pulling it all together revived and improved their relationships to
honeymoon status. If that's not a good enough reason, let’s talk money
for a minute...
How many hundreds or thousands of dollars do you think you
might spend on marriage counselors and/or lawyers trying to fix your
current problems (especially if you get caught in an affair)?
kids involved? Do you want to risk only seeing them every other weekend?
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Dude! Where were you four years ago when I married this
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In case you found this page before
going through dozens or even hundreds of offers for materials on a
related subject, the dating gurus, at least those cited above, are
getting a couple hundred bucks or more for many of their products, and
having bought and read them, I can tell you they’ve earned every penny
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people, and interviewing hundreds of people, not to mention testing
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